Posts tagged “Overcoming Infertility”

Two years ago, having 0-1% chance of conceiving naturally and feeling lost, we embarked on a natural fertility journey after being told by the NHS our only real chance of conceiving was via IVF. We did not feel we could ethically do this while also feeling the pangs of desperation of wanting to become parents. 
 
I (Simon) am a simple guy, more comfortable with burgers than berries, and change isn't always my friend. That's where Ira Winter entered our lives, a beacon of knowledge and support in a confusing sea. 
 
Ira didn't just suggest changes, she understood them. 
 
There were moments of doubt, stubbornness rearing its ugly head. But Ira never wavered. She was a constant cheerleader, celebrating small victories and offering encouragement when things felt rough. Her expertise shone through, but even more impressive was her genuine care. She truly invested in our journey, teaching us how to do charting, suggesting supplements for both of us etc. 
 
And guess what? It worked! We now have a four month old little boy who is the light of our lives. It wasn't an easy road, but looking back, every sacrifice, every charting session, feels worth it. And a huge chunk of that credit goes to Ira Winter. 
 
If I could forward a piece of advice to myself two years ago (where I had some parameters at 0% level) I would say: just do what Ira says! 
 
If you're a couple considering the natural path, unsure and maybe a little intimidated by change, get in touch with Ira. She'll walk beside you, explain the science in terms you understand. She'll also give you contacts for other specialists and believe in you even when you doubt yourself. 
 
Simon and Claire 
Our practice is based on the churches teaching on marriage and family life, this article on the meeting and outcome statements from Rome, affirms the very work we are doing. The goal is to identify and restore natural fertility without breaking the marital bond. 
Lucy writes about her journey using the Creighton Model FertilityCare system in assisting her and her husband with identifying their fertility challenges. I love the way her story shows the holistic spectrum of making life's decisions and how following the Creighton/NaPro path allowed them to stay true to their core beliefs. Click on the link to read her story.  
We all know about the idea of positive thinking. Why does it not always work? Dr Joe Dispenza in his book 'Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself' uses mathematical and physical models to illuminate how humans can influence their future. 
For me, much of my journey was a battle of trying to work out what exactly God had promised me and how much I was supposed to do to bring about his promises.